The “I told you so” blues
We reach out to others for guidance, clarity, and assistance. No one looks for the person they relied on for advice to tell them “I told you so”. We seek help for a reason…to help us deal with the current situation. When we ask for advice or guidance we look for an objective view. We go to people we trust. We confide in them and expect them to give us the best possible point of view. We look to them because we value their opinion and insight. Just because we request help does