Learning love

I have been in love, on love, around love, and through love so many times. I have changed my idea of what love is and what I want from it. Over time I have been included in triangles of love between my heart, my mind, and my spirit. I looked to people that I knew for love and they showed me the difference between conditional and unconditional love. I have learned what it means to say I love you and how it feels to show how much you love someone. I do not like for my choices to be taken away from me. If you don’t love me, don’t say that you do. I would rather know that there is no love than to be tricked into thinking that the love you say is real is actually conditional. Unconditional respect is earned and unconditional love is respected.

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